Saturday, June 15, 2013

Sweet Marigold

I not rely sure what to say so i guess i get to the truth. Marigold has stoped eating she sniff it and walk was she look like she very nausea she on all sorts of supportive meds non are helping we are about 98% sure it FIP wet form. I  do not see much of a point in puttting her though alot more just for me. She still jumping and responds to her name but she can't go on much longer. I talked to the vet last night and i said It was time to think about stopping.

I talked it over with Marigold and told her if this is FIP then she needs to go to rose. I think the only thing that makes me feel even a little better is knowing that rose is waiting for her with open arms .

So here are my plans if a mercial happen between now and Sunday then it happens but if it dose not then on Sunday I will go out to tufts say my goodbyes and do what needs to be done. I know Dr C wants to talk to me but i feel that she can't live her for me. I can't be gready. I can't take her home have her leave again and just upset everyone

Unforitly all my family has washed there hands of this and said I told you so and will not go with me. So i have to do this my self. I might need to find somewere in the area for the night as i not sure i be able to drive home. 

Burty sleeeps in her spot alot now i think he knowa i caught maxie in a few of her faviort spots it hard ro look at the winodow and know she not there

In the shot time i had her  i loved her but  she was a on lone to me from Rose and now it time to give her back to her real mom.  I know rose went though this with Cathi. I think in the end Marigold loves me and she needs rose.


11 comments:

  1. I am so sorry. Purrs to you and Marigold. I'm know that you turned your life upside down for her and Mr. B. - they couldn't have had a more devoted human take them in after Rose died.

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  2. I am so sorry for all this is putting you through. You are very loving, kind and strong to go through this on your own. You did a wonderful thing taking these two on and saving them from abandonment, or worse. I think you have done everything you could. I hate that your family isn't backing you up on this. You need their support, but regardless the cat blogosphere understands and respects your decisions. I wish I could make it better for you. You have been through so much. I am glad you have been there for these two kitties. They needed you and they love you.
    My hearts hurts for you and I will send any positive energy I can to you and Marigold.

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  3. Sending comforting purrrrayersss and mournfull purrrrrrss to you and Marigold. We really wish we were close enough to help you with this, at least for the drive itself.

    Sometimes, letting them go is all you can do.

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  4. Laura, I wish I was close, I would go with you. You are making the right decision for Marigold. That is all that counts!

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  5. We are so sorry to hear this. We're purring for you as you help Marigold reunite with Rose. We know Marigold has experienced a lot of love in the short time she's lived with you.

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  6. Sorry to hear this. Does she have FIP for sure?Here a link about FIP http://manhattancats.com/Articles/fip_testing.html I wonder if having her teeth extracted has something to do with her symptoms. I hope there is a solution without putting her down.

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  7. It 98% sure it FIP the test will be back on monday but every thing points to that. No having teerh exacted had nothing to do with her symptoms if anything for the frist time ever her mouth was pain free. I have read all about FIP. everything points to it FIp is a last resot digouss

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  8. We are sad to hear this but letting Marigold go to her beloved Rose is the kindest thing you can do for her and she will be so happy to be with her again.
    Luv Hannah and Lucy xx xx

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  9. We are so terribly sorry to read this. You've done so much for her and Mr. Brutus, and even though you didn't have her a long time, she knew love and safety with you, which is a priceless gift. Wet form FIP is so hard. Our thoughts and purrs are with you and Marigold.

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  10. We are sorry it is time for Marigold to go to the Bridge.
    It was so good of you to take her in and love her.
    While this is a hard decision, at least you know she is going to be with Rose.

    Purrs Tillie and Georgia,
    Treasure,Tiger,JJ and Julie

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  11. Yes, sweet Marigold just could not adjust to being without Rose...but Miss Laura...you gave Marigold time to make her own decision. You are a purrfect kitty Mom...paw hugs, Savannah

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